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of the least of these . . you did for me." Matt 25:40

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Friday, February 6, 2009

Day 21

Back to Slow

Typical morning. Pancakes and yogurt for breakfast.

I decided to do laundry. I washed some T-shirts in the shower. It took all day for them to dry. Are they clean?

Tanya came to the hotel. She told us that today is Igor's mother's name day. Tanya wanted money to buy a gift for her. Eileen gave her a "little plant flower thing" and a little makeup to give to mother-in-law instead. These were gifts brought from the US to be given away. Tanya wanted money to go out dancing with friends, to celebrate a teacher. Five dollars goes a long way here.

I was able to work for 4 hours. Finally a block of uninterrupted time. I got to play some Tom Waits while Eileen napped. Great stuff. Some of it applies. "No one speaks English, and everything's broken." Tom, I hear you there.

We got the girls at 2:30. The room was being cleaned when we got back from the internot, so we waited in the restaurant. The daughter (10 years old?) of one of the hotel owners came in, and started coloring at one of the tables. Sasha, very outgoing, invited herself and started coloring too. Soon we all moved upstairs to a better lighted table. I got a coloring book and some markers from our room, so we could share. After a while, we retired to our room, and Sasha played outside with her new friend for a while.

When Sasha came in, we fed Sasha and Nastiya apples, bananas, soup, cheese, bread, juice. Then they played with Paint on my computer, taking turns. I got out Uno, and we played that for a while. We got out balloons. Long skinny balloons. That was a big hit. We made some butterfly wings, and "hats", and things to wear on the wrist. It was fun to watch them model their balloon apparel in front of the mirror.

We ate at the hotel restaurant, a very light meal. Chicken for the girls, "greek" salad for Eileen. Then we had cake and ice cream for dessert. Sasha is always running to take charge. She calls the waitress over, makes some orders. She calls the waitress over, asks for the bill. She goes to the front desk, and calls a taxi. She jumps in the taxi, gives directions. It is common for kids in a chaotic household to try to impose control. It's helpful right now, but in Colorado it's going to be tough since the customs are different.

We had a couple of eggs that had cracks, so making hard boiled eggs was questionable. We took them to the clerk, and tried to indicate that we wanted them cooked for breakfast tomorrow. The last time we tried to indicate eggs and tea, we got bilinnis and coffee. I wonder what we will get tomorrow.

3 comments:

Twyla, John, Duncan, Mari, and Misha said...

Hi guys,

Got busy with a few hectic days of school/activities and only am now catching up with your blog!

Okay, no one responded and I was not sure if you were serious but here you go phonetically:
Oil of Mink - olia beez norka (?)
Fried Egg - yaitsza (malky=fried)
Omelette - omlet
Scrambled egg - yaichnia
Hard boiled - tverdy koupiti (maybe?)
Tea - chai
Black tea - chorni chai
Green tea - zeleni chai

Some of these I had to guess at - so they may not work! Better to ask Tanya or your translator and write it down!

We still think about the kids that were left behind and see their little faces 3 months after we are home! The kids wiggle into your heart and you can't imagine them living that life and not getting out (Olya especially since her Grandmother visits regularly). The visits are nice now, but what happens when Olya is bigger (maybe after spending her entire childhood there) and Grandma passes?

I hope you are all better and that the time passes quickly and that you all stay healthy!

You are all in our prayers,
The Barretts

Heidi and Felix said...

Yeah, we've learned a thing or two about the control issue. I felt so guilty using Nadia's translation skills in Ukraine while knowing that we needed to reign in the control once we got home. She too would help with taxis, groceries, restaurants, etc. It is definitely a work in progress!!!

adopting2fromUkraine said...

It is sometimes difficult to get your point across even if you know a little Russian. I was going to tell you how to say eggs, but see someone already did. The only thing I would add is eggs are pronounced:

yiy-tsah with the i being long.

We have had major control issues with our daughter. She was an only child. Apparently, her mother was extremely irresponsible (she was always drunk) and maybe Karina had to take care of her mom(?) Who knows. I've heard that the children in a dysfunctional family will take on various characteristics that the parents lack. Hence, the control issues.

We too had to rely on Karina to talk to taxi drivers and such. She would tell them everything! I could understand a little of what she said so I had an idea what she was telling them.

I have to tell her, I'm the mom, you're the child, frequently. At least she's stopped telling me what we need to do when:0

June