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Sunday, February 1, 2009

Day 15

Things have slowed way down. There's not much to write about now. We are getting into the routine of living while we wait for documents and court dates. Get up in the morning, see what's made for breakfast, sit down and try to work. Around 1pm, go to the internot (orphanage, not to be confused with internet). Sit there for a while, play cards with Sasha and Nastiya, get tired of sitting in the internot, go to the pizza place, eat some food. Eventually, back to the hotel to see a movie, snack like crazy, then take the girls back to the internot.

Tanya is starting to get bored. Oh yeah, what is entertaining for young kids is not going to be entertaining for a 17 year old, duh. I would like to find some way to make this Ukrainian waiting-to-be-adopted time special for her too. There must be something to do that's fun other than shop. Will have to ask about ice skating, bowling or other things kids do to keep from resorting to alchohol. We badly need to communicate with Tanya. Fortunately, she is eager to learn English. She is picking up words daily. I think Igor must be helping her. Sasha and Nastiya do ok communicating, since they had 10 weeks with us. I hear words from them I didn't know they knew. Good ones I mean. We sort of have our own English-Russian mix language. They know the words I know and use them. Tanya is catching on. I know I've been mispronouncing some of the words but the girls use them my way anyway.

Tanya left us today after the pizza. She didn't want to come and watch "Mary Poppins," go figure.

Sasha and Nastiya both washed their hair at the hotel room. They get a shower maybe weekly. We watched less than an hour of Mary Poppins, then the computer froze. We took the girls back to the internot, then stopped at our local little store to buy eggs, but there were none. Wrong kind of store, I guess.

Eileen bought a hot pot. We got it at a second hand store. The clerk demonstrated the pot. She filled it with water, plugged it in, waited for the water to boil, and the pot shut itself off. Then Eileen had to sign a slip of paper. We think the paper must have said something like, "I watched this product work, so I can't say it was defective when I got it home."

On the way to the internot, we got on the same trolley that Tanya had taken. We practically walked into her arms while boarding. I did not have small change, so it took a long time to get change for my 10 grivna. The trolley ride to the internot is only a mile or so. In fact, the doors to the trolley closed on me before I could get change. I think the change lady had the trolley stop within 20 yards of the intended stop, and I got off. I made quite a spectacle. Tanya and Eileen were waiting for me on the curb and laughing. Later, we caught the trolley with the same change lady. She recognized me, chuckled, and got me my change very quickly!

Now it's just going to be life in a hotel room.

It's been snowing the last 24 hours. The streets and sidewalks were becoming free of ice and snow. Now we have 6 inches of snow, with more falling.

2 comments:

Kari said...

So good to get daily posts from you and hear all of the details. Keep them coming. Today's was too short! Maybe you will get to all of those books and movies. We had the same issue with Ashley. It could be painful sometimes trying to visit, even with a translator. Easy to entertain the little ones, not so easy to entertain a teenager. She and her roommates liked looking at picures on our computer. Eunice bought Josh a "Bridge to English" computer CD set, but it is for 0-5 year olds. Maybe they have an older version. The older kids always enjoyed games, Trouble, Connect 4, and especially Uno. Can you teach her to knit, Eileen? We went swimming with the Roges today, lots of fun! Can't wait for you to be back and join us, we miss you!
Love,
Kari

Twyla, John, Duncan, Mari, and Misha said...

We went through the same "Groundhog's Day" every day for weeks! You are lucky - tomorrow is Groundhog's Day, so now you can literally live it!

We know what living in a hotel room is like and eating in the same cafe (morning, noon, and night)! At least you can bring the girls out of the Internot and into town, to the hotel, etc.

Can Tanya share any of the girl's history with you in terms of place - and can you get pictures? We did get a picture of the kid's residence when their Birthmother was alive. We wish we had known where their Birthmother's gravesite was, so that we could take pictures for the kids. We wish we would have been able to meet relatives, etc. Maybe with Tanya's maturity, she can show you some of these places if any are pertinent.

Mari and Anya both love cross-stich. Possibly Tanya and Sasha are good at it and would appreciate some aida cloth, floss, and cross-stich needles. What about painting nails and playing beauty parlor?

Good luck with your wait. Let us know when the court hearing is so that we can pray for your positive outcome!

Stay warm, dry, and safe,
The Barretts